A Non-Offending Partner Speaks Out
We all have an opinion about people who commit online sex offences. This non-offending partner tells us that her husband is redeemable.
We all have an opinion about people who commit online sex offences. This non-offending partner tells us that her husband is redeemable.
An ex online offender tells his powerful story. Society’s refusal to accept his rehabilitation has not only impacted upon him, but his children too.
We aren’t bad, nor irredeemable….
Sex addicts come from all walks of life, young and old, gay or straight, bisexual or transgender. We come from all ethnic and religious backgrounds…I also found that because of the sensitive nature of sexual addiction and society’s views on it, I was relieved that the meetings I went to were ‘closed’ to only those wishing to stop addictive sexual behaviour. It felt safe knowing that the practice of anonymity and confidentiality is so respected, it made the meeting a safe place for me. I only need to use my first name and anything I say in the meeting is treated as confidential and we’re encouraged not to discuss things outside with non-members.
You can’t tell anyone you’re in the
maze. Your phone might even have been taken away, your children’s phones might also have been taken away. You must continue to take care of yourself and your children, but please don’t ask for help because there isn’t any. You can’t complain about being in the
maze, nor about there being no help because you must pretend to be ok.
The Police Foundation (Police’s Think Tank), in July 2022 released a report entitled “Turning the Tide Against Online Child Sexual Abuse” recognises that not all those CSAM offenders are created equal. Distinctions must be made between the different types of offenders.
Book Review: Crossing the Line by Michael Sheath
Online Sexual Offences.
Crossing the Line is a series of connected monologues about the sexual abuse of children and the ripple effect of secondary victims.
Getting help when you have been affected by a loved-ones online sexual offending is crucial. Reaching out and talking to others is key.
Here’s what happens to the sexual perpetrator’s innocent family members when they offend. Collateral damage is dangerous for society. More help and support is needed for these innocent family members.
In the UK and globally, police forces and law enforcement agencies (LEAs) are facing huge demand to view, process and analyse digital evidence. Families are further devastated due to the long waits. The University of Huddersfield is helping to address this.
Vigilante stings threaten the Fundamental Human Rights of those targeted (and their families, including children).