Help for Families

Expert Risk Assessments

Expert risk assessments more accurately assess risk and avoids errors in intervention that can further traumatise the family. If social services won’t organise and pay for a forensic risk assessment, then you can pay for one yourself. The results can be used to help families reunite.

RESTORE ME CourseBy ‘The Knock’ website. 

INFORM COURSE Lucy Faithfull Foundation. For Families of People who have Offended Online. 10 hour zoom course (5 weeks x 2 hours). Fee may apply means tested 

StopSO Online course for Family Members and Partners – Understanding Online Sexual Offences. StopSO Course FAQ’s for Family Members and Partners.

Safeguarding Children Level 2, CPD accredited. 

Parents Protect Online Sexual Abuse Prevention Information. By Lucy Faithfull Foundation. 

NSPCC Online Safety Course. Provided in collaboration with the NCA-CEOP, the child protection unit of the National Crime Agency, this e-learning course will help you to understand what children and young people do online, why they take risks and how to respond to these risks so you can feel confident in protecting your children. Accredited.

StopSO Annual Conference (usually in May each year).

How Do I tell the Children?Article by Non-Offending Partner.

Lucy Faithfull Foundation The Lucy Faithfull Foundation is a UK-wide charity dedicated to tackling child sexual abuse.  They offer the INFORM course for friends and family of online offenders. They also offer an online Friends and Family Forum.  Non-offending partner testimonies.  They also operate the Stop It Now Helpline 0808 1000 900

STOPSO STOPSO has UK-wide independent network of professionals working with sex offenders and their families. They offer a course for family members of non-contact offences.  There is also a closed email group for family and friends of all types of sexual offenders.

Acts Fast Acts Fast aims to relieve the distress of the non-offending family members affected by online and contact sexual offences.  They provide crisis support by request.

Safer Lives Safer Lives works with online or technologically-assisted sexual offenders and their families.   They offer private consultations and support groups for family members.

Children Heard and Seen Children Heard and Seen support children, young people and their families who are impacted by parental imprisonment.  They strive to support their needs, listen to their concerns, and have their views heard and reflected in policy. Family blogs, support packages and much more including a leaflet on how to tell children that their parent is in prison.

Affect AFFECT (Action For Families Enduring Criminal Trauma) are a group of people who currently have, or have had, a family member in prison.  Offering confidential and non-judgemental 1:1 and group support, regardless of length of sentence or type of offence. They do not discriminate, and are supportive of those who choose to support their loved one and those who choose not to support their loved one.  Helpful links page.  

Thames Valley Partnership Those affected by crime often feel trapped, and without options. TVP delivers a broad range of support services to victims, offenders and their families in crisis as well as creating more sustainable, long term solutions, to the problems of crime and social exclusion. 

Juliet Grayson Website This is an extensive resource site for those accused of (or who have committed) a sexual offence, the families of those accused of a sexual offence, therapists working with those accused of a sexual offence Victims of a sexual offence(s).  The website http://sexuallyinappropriatebehaviour.org/  was set up by Juliet Grayson UKCP Registered Psychosexual Therapist and co-founder of StopSO.  A request to complete a questionnaire to participate in her research is here.

Doing Time If you or your loved one are facing a criminal conviction and you want help navigating the minefield of the British penal system this is the site for you. Doing Time will tell you the reality of what you are facing as you are processed through the system, and will help you and yours deal with the day-to-day issues.  We can introduce you to experienced lawyers can help you with parole, probation, immigration, adjudications, visits and any other complaints and disputes you have with the Prison Service.

Unlock Unlock is a charity founded by a group of former prisoners who wanted to use their experience so that people with convictions would have better opportunities to move on in their lives.  There are also lots of resources specifically on sexual offences and the law (SOR, travel, SHPO etc).

Prison Voicemail Prison Voicemail is an award-winning social venture with a mission to improve communication channels between people in prison and their family and friends, with the aim of relieving some of the causes of stress and isolation that ultimately increase the risk of self-harm and reoffending.

Prison Chat UK An online forum giving support to those who have a loved one inside the British prison system. Whoever is inside, be it your mother, father, wife, husband, sister, brother etc, and no matter what they have done, you are welcomed there. They hope that you find the answers and support you need at this testing time. Having a loved one inside can leave you feeling lost, lonely and betrayed. They are here to help you get through it.

Family Rights Group A national charity that advises parents, grandparents, relatives and friends about their rights and options when social workers or courts make decisions about their children’s welfare. They work with parents whose children are in need, at risk or are in the care system and with wider family members and friends who are raising children (known as kinship carers).

Childline Childline is there to help anyone under 19 in the UK with any issue they’re going through. You can talk about anything. Whether it’s something big or small, their trained counsellors are there to support you. Childline is free, confidential and available any time, day or night. You can talk to them: by calling 0800 1111 by email through 1-2-1 counsellor chat.

Samaritans Whatever you’re going through, a Samaritan will face it with you. They’re here 24 hours a day, 365 days a year.  Call 116 123 or email.

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